I can remember the time, I can see it, the love we shared
Pickin' up that cotton together, chained together, bound in true holiness together,
On our hands and knees we were on the ground praying to GOD together
Even looking in your eyes while we were hung together
It was strong
It was based off the struggles we've dealt with
It was based off the honor we gave
It was true, it was real, it was down to earth, and it was deep
Couldn't any man break that bond- It was tight and it was right
What ever happened to Black Love?
What is Black Love?
When I stand by your side, when the world is trying to destroy you undercover
I am your best friend and I am your lover
When I give birth to your children, so that they may represent
who you stand for as Black Man and who I stand for as a Black Woman, and have meaning on this earth
So I may know you are down for me, and that I am down for you all the way
My Black beauty is what you are attracted to and love
You are my Black King and I am your Black Queen,
So let's go raise our Black prince and princess into the same,
Baby we ain't got no shame in this Black love game
What ever happened to Black Love?
It's like nonexistent, it's like scarce, it's like, he just my baby daddy or, she just my baby mama,
Its like, you embarrassed to tell your boys you in love with this Black woman, you'd rather say, she just my friend, nothing more.
You telling everybody, even your own mind that you don't want nothing more from that Black woman
But ain't that kind of strange, when all she will do is love you and use her own strength to pick you up, when she see you slippin'
She will stand by your side till death,
And you don't want that?
Black man why you embarrassed to be in Love???????
Why? You think being a real man doesn't involve being in love?
So that you see my Black face, and have misconceptions mixed in with your made up annotations
that Black women are this or that, mama dramas, and round about attitudes
What ever happen to Black Love?
When the respect that is lost and thrown out the window for this Black woman or Black man
When the prejudging of a Black Man is not only being degraded by the White Man, but also by his own Black sister too
And the Black Man is saying:
Black Woman don't hate on me, when I already got the white man hating on me too
And Black Women he's absolutely right....
Love sees no color; I would have to agree with that
But it's not stupid either, and knows color exist, Love feels it
And when love is hating its own and treating it as though something else is better,
Cause you'd rather be with Heather
Or maybe Ms. Ramirez, cause you think that's the fairest
No, Brotha', there's a problem, solve it!
Cause I see you looking at Shaniqua with doubt
Black Man, what's that all about ?
Isn't your mother Black, isn't your sister Black, isn't your very daughter and son Black?
Are you dating her because she has long straight blonde hair, or easy? Or are you dating her because you love her?
Are you not dating her over there, because you think she got an attitude
and hair is too short or kinked up, and hips are too big, and the skin is too dark?
Or are you not dating her because you honestly don't match character-wise.
There are plenty of beautiful Black woman with many shades and shapes
I love my Blackness, I love these big hips and round ass, and I love the thickness of my hair,
And all of the styles that I can work out
Because nobody else got all these beautiful characteristics, not like me. Don't you see?
GOD pictured us and said, "Black women, I'm going to make you beautiful, Black and unique.
Cause brotha', why you tryin' to play me, when she over there tryin' to be just like me.
My Brotha's…. What ever happened to Black Love?
Your own brother you talkin' about like a dog to the world, and you won't even help him
And the White Man is sitting back loving it all
But when the white man does the same, it racism
You better cut out all that haterism
What is that really going to accomplish, for real?
Y'all better start making this a big deal
Cause just remember he will help his own kind before he helps you,
if anything he probably gonna use you for all your hard work, don't get it confused… OK?
Cause ain't that what he did to you back in the day?
Understand that, remember that, just go ahead and place it in your mind in case you ever forget
My sisters…. What ever happened to Black Love?
Have we forgot how to respect ourselves?
Cause you know if YOU don't, he sure the hell won't
Now, I'm gonna say this once and maybe once more, because even sometimes I forget and I don' wrote it:
"Having a man in my life will only influence my happiness, not decide my happiness.
My happiness will be chosen by myself and will depend upon my attitude about who I am as a Black woman and life in general."
Don't just rely on a man to get you where and what you want
Set goals, set dreams, and be the strong Black, unique, woman that GOD made you to be
And if he does come around to welcome you something, that's fine
Just remember you can get yours even if he didn't come around
We have to keep this world together Black ladies
Act like you love yourself and your children,
Men will respect that
And make them men wait before you just go around given' it up
Treat your stuff like its diamonds and gold
Make them pay some kind of price before you give it up
And NO….. that price is not all about money, or what they could buy you
Cause in reality, you can do that your damn self
Unless you don't really care… Maybe you just need to get you some
But use condoms and don't be dumb
Unless you want a baby or a disease
And if you are in a relationship, hey… that's your call
But reach into your mind for a moment before you let them panties fall
And reap the consequences that's all I'm saying
And think about that, while you on that bed or floor laying
And yes we've all had to learn the hard way about feelings getting hurt
I know I have, but now I know I'm on alert
Black women, you have to start using your mind,
Cause If you don't, then guess who they going around calling a HO?
And looking like you didn't even know
If you like that title, then go ahead and do the damn thing Fo' show!
What ever happened to Black love?
Why are you putting him down as a Black man all the time?
Yes he has flaws, but so do you
Even though Black Men do get on my nerves sometimes too
I can feel you and I can relate
But I love my Black Men I must admit, and I want him as my mate
And I'd rather be with a Black Man any day, and have his children
Because in my book, that's just the way to do it
Black men have had struggles like no other man, and he has conquered endeavors in front of the entire world
They be frontin' on him, but they wanna be just like that Black Man
That Black Man is strong in body and in mind
They don't know his strength, and NO, they can't have his strength
Why are you dwelling on his jail times, and bail times
And if he doesn't change, then you know what you gotta do
But let me just remind you, there's more Black men who got it together than you think
Don't let the news confuse you
But he's trying to do something with his life and needs your support as a Black Woman
These black men have come a long way
And they are here to stay
And they are reaching limitless boundaries and I am loving it...OK!
Stand by his side, and take care of that Black King
So you can teach your little prince to be just like that Black King
So that we may raise our little Black prince and princess up, so that they know who they are as a Black woman and Black man
And not become confused, thinking that whiteness is better than Blackness
So they may represent and present what Black love is
Don't get me wrong, we should love all races
But not love all other races and hate our own Blackness.
What ever happened to Black love?
Black love is a beautiful thing
Being Black is a beautiful thing
We need Black people to represent the Black love, because if we don't, we will?
The man who is white? Yea, right....
Black love is needed in order to built the self-esteem of Black people and to keep the generation going and going and going
Its lacking, it's shedding a little
Who told your mind that white skin is better than Black ?
Who told your mind that course hair is bad, and straight hair is better?
Who told your mind this nose is unattractive and that narrow straight nose is better?
Who told your mind these big lips are unpleasant and those thin lips are better?
The person who has that white skin told you that!
That person who has that straight hair told you that!
That person who has that narrow straight nose told you that!
That person with those thin lips told you that!
GOD never told you that!!
And you believed them like a fool, because it was more of them than you!
And why did you listen???? Ok, so now they GOD right? NO!
They told you that, because that's what they have and they like who they are
But you actin' like you don't even like who you are,
GOD created me and told me and showed me that I am beautiful
And I don't know what you talkin' bout
But I love my Blackness, It is beautiful, And you can't have it, And you ain't got it, And you ain't never gonna take it,
And NO, I ain't going to exchange my Blackness
What ever happened to Black Love?
When I see more white people in love than I see Black people
When I see you disrespecting that Black Queen, and then you walking down the isle with that white one
When I see you neglecting that Black daughter of yours, but raising that new mixed daughter of yours, But ain't she Black too?
Who told your mind that the light is better than the dark?
Who told your heart that the loving was easier?
Who told your soul that you would rather be in a committed relationship with her rather than me?
Why are you letting your ears listen to those white words, when he doesn't even like who you really are.
And sees you as negatively different?
And even wants to see you be more like him, because he thinks he is better,
and wonders why GOD even made you in the first place
What the HELL ever happened to Black Love?
Because you don't even like who you are,
So now you trying to change me, rearrange me, and than exchange me
My sisters and brothers, What ever happened to Black love?
Let's make it grow some more, lets make it come back with force
Let's keep it intact, so there won't even be a question as to: What Ever Happened to Black Love
And I am not hatin' on nobody, because our mixed Black Sista's and Brotha's wouldn't even be here
But I'm just trying to find out, What Ever Happened to Black Love?