Why do we have so little respect for ourselves

and our other sista's that we would allow

a lying brotha to come in and divide us?

Yes, he looks good and he knows exactly what to say

to make you feel like you are the only one in his life but guess what...

He told the same lies to the previous sista

and he will tell the same lies to the next sista who comes after you...

But why do we think that things will be different with us?

Why when the previous sista tells you about

what he did to her do we think...Ohno!!! 

I'm sorry he treated you so coldly but it won't happen to me...

Surprise, Surprise... It Did!!!

Sista's Please Wake Up!!!

Let's stop dissing each other, let's learn from our mistakes...

Don't hide in shame, when a brotha plays you...

Yes, I said Played...

Dust yourself off and share the lesson learned with your other sista's...

However, Don't Blame The Brotha!!!

For you see that's to easy,

we have to take some responsibility for our own heart break...

If we look back we will see that all along

the brotha was telling us that he was

unworthy of our love and devotion but,

we chose not to hear him and made excuses...

Well, next time take a step back and listen

to that inner voice that says...

Run... and Run as fast as you can

Please sista's let's learn to love ourselves enough to say...Not Me!!!

And let's never again allow a unworthy brotha to divide us again...

Peace...